Saturday, September 03, 2005

not keeping in touch...and babies

NOT keeping in touch really makes it hard to be up on the news of your friends!

I suppose twon months on the road is a good excuse, but I really need to be better about calling friends. Why is it so hard?

Well, I found out today that my friend is expecting another baby girl in January. This is so wonderful. I have (sadly) seen baby #1 gros up, via Ofoto online - I say sadly because it is not as good as in person of course. The last time I saw her she wasn't walkin g yet, wasn't talking yet (much)... but was still so funny. She cracked me up. Now I see pictures pf her playing on the playground with friends. It is amazing what happens in a year!

I have two other special little babies that are in MY OWN family now, who I don't even know when I will meet. This is especialy killing me. Hopefully this winter break. Mikaela and Arianna. I did just send them souvenirs from my road trip, little soft stuffed horses. I hope they like them. My mom is realy my only way of seeing them grow up via pictures... but sadly I haven't seen any since birth. Argh.

Well, I really must make it a priority to call folks, but I always say that, and never maintain it. Of course, my freidns are the same... I rarely get calls too. Emails are easier, but even that - often I feel like my closest of friends shouldn't jsut get an email, they should get a phone call. So I never email them back, because I intend on calling. And then the calling gets postponed for some unknown reason. And then I just get to wishing that I still LIVED near them, so I could see them (and their babies) on a regular basis. But I can't live near all of them, as they live on opposite sides of the country. So, people, get with it - move to the best place in the country, the northwest, ALL of you, and then we won't have this problem! There, settled.

The nice thing is, all of my friends do seem to be the same way, so we all understand each other adn therefore can carryon a meaningful conversation for an hour or so after not talking for months. As if no time went by.

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